Mothering energy is healing right now...healing the parental wounds.

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Mothering...? (((noooo....))))


I am strong! I am independent. I don't need any help...(total balls) the child who resists. The Protected one. She who turned a bright face to the world. I am "ok". Vulnerability is weak...

voices in my psyche.

the depths of this obsessive love *pattern*
"Only if our parents met our needs for respect, love, approval, and protection can we generally develop enough trust in ourselves and trust in others to negotiate the stormy, uncharted waters of separation (child becoming adult). Those that don't meet these needs disrupt this journey by making the children feel abandoned. And if children feel abandoned , they usually lose the courage to separate, as if they have *lost their safety net*!!! on the first step onto the tight rope. (from Obsessive Love: when it hurts too much to let go. Dr. Susan Forward.)

"Rejection is the obsessive adult lover's worst nightmare." S.F.